Words that define you


I don't mean labels -- e.g. lawyer, doctor, entrepreneur -- rather those that shine a light on True Self:

Compassion
Kindness
Thoughtfulness
Love
Tenderness
Silence
Open-hearted
Warm
Giving

 This is never about perfection -- a bit of shadow work never goes amiss -- but instead being the change that you want to see.

More to the point, when someone stands to give your eulogy, how would you like to be remembered? For the things you did, the stuff you owned or the people you touched?

Blessings,

Julian

Photo by Jez Timms

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